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Early in November, my cousins Michelle and Don came through Barcelona after doing a cycling tour of Mallorca. We met up with them for dinner and took them to our favorite tapas place, Fragments . It was fun to see them after so many years! (Michelle's dad is my mom's first cousin. She lived with us for a while when I was in high school.) They had friends along who are considering moving to Spain, so we gave them some helpful tips. We also learned (the hard way) that there are some Metro stops that only reach trains going one direction - you have to go back up to street level and find a different entrance to go the other way. And your metro card won't work if you try to do both entries in quick succession. Oops. Then I went off to the States for 10 days for SC25  in St. Louis. It was a crazy conference week that was a little stressful, but a lot fun. I did get to go for a 5K walk on a beautiful sunny Saturday morning, right under the Gateway Arch, and had dinner with family ...

I had to be in the States for a meeting the week of October 6, so I took the opportunity to stop by and see the parents in DC. As a surprise for me, Dad invited Jae come to town too, so we had all three kids there for a few days, and it was great!  Dad is doing really well after his 'scare' earlier this year, gaining strength and stamina, working with PT and occupational therapy every week. Mom is taking good care of him, but also taking care of herself, going to the gym and water aerobics and such. (We didn't plan to have all of us wearing red, it just happened. :) )  On Thursday, after Jae arrived (poor guy took the red-eye and landed in DC around 10am) , he joined me for lunch at the Silver Diner in Ballston , and then we hit a couple of stores for some of the random things I wanted to bring back to Barcelona -- chili powder, swiffer dusters, decaf black tea, and corn holders, among other things. They sell corn on the cob in the grocery store, but we couldn't find th...

It feels like there's been some kind of festival in Barcelona every week since we got here. Last week was a big one - La Mercè . It takes place at parks and venues all over town. This year the partner city was Manchester, UK, so there were lots of things related to bees (which are apparently the symbol of Manchester? It was too cold to see any bees when we were there). We skipped most of the excitement during the week, but last Sunday we chose a handful of things to go see, and ended up at a park farther from the city than we've ever been. We started at the Parc de la Ciutadella, where there is a greenhouse that they call the " Hivernacle ". It was a short walk down from the Arc de Triomf station, and easy to find since all we had to do was follow the crowd!  The plants were huge! see pic --> Our next activity was nearby, at the Parc de l'Estació del Nord, where there were food stalls and lots of things going on. We were in time to hear "Mr. Wilson's S...

Now that we're pretty well settled and have stopped shopping for home goods every weekend, we've been trying to see some cultural *something* at least once a week. Last weekend I decided that I'd had enough sitting around and wanted to go to the Barcelona History Museum . It's in an old palace right behind the Barcelona cathedral. It was a fifteen minute walk, and lucky us, it's also free entry after 3pm on Sundays!   From the entrance, the only place to go was to an elevator, which was a little confusing, but when we got in the elevator it made sense - there was a display that said '2025', and as we descended the years rolled back until we were at -12 when it stopped. (We only went down two levels...)   Spanish archaeologists have uncovered thousands of years of history, so that when you walk through the ruins, you're seeing the Roman city  Barcino from the 1st century BC, the Visigoths  Barchinona from the 7th century AD, and medieval Barcelona fro...

September 11 is The National Day of Catalonia, also known as the Diada, a day-long festival. We had the day off, and spent most of it lounging around the apartment. It was pouring rain, so I did laundry and baked cookies. The sun came out in the afternoon, so we decided to go for a walk. We haven't made it down to the waterfront since we moved here. We were clearly not the only ones with that idea! Lots of flags, people in "independence" t-shirts, etc. There was a stage set up at the bottom of La Rambla, and lots of people gathering in various places. But they were very friendly and peaceful - more of a party than a protest.  As we were walking along, we noticed a giant yacht in the harbor, towering over everything. Turns out it's the Maryah ,  #37 on the list of largest yachts in the world. According to one website, its amenities include a dance floor, movie theater, beauty salon, and underwater lights. It has 27 state rooms. The interior photos are stunning . It...

Bucket list - iStock I was going back through old blog posts, and I found a bucket list I called "50 Things to do Before I turn 50." I wrote it in 2010, when I wasn't even 40. I didn't have "move to another country" on my list, but that apparently happened before I managed to go up in a hot air balloon! Didn't do a lot of these in thirteen years, so maybe I'll do better this time. Y'all are gonna have to keep me honest. I've got about 8 years before I turn 60.  Hmmm... I might change a few of these to reflect new realities and new interests.    Here's my original list: 1. Visit the Aquarium (Monterrey, Baltimore, Sydney, Auckland... I love aquariums) 2. Dance in the rain 3. Ride in a hot air balloon 4. Buy a house 5. Visit all 50 states (hmmm, not as likely now) 6. Own a big girl camera 7. Spend a day at a winery 8. Tutor Someone 9. Host a dinner party 10. Go camping 11. Write a book…or...